상담과 코칭의 통합적 적용에 대한 사례 연구

• 영문명: A Case Study on the Circular-Integrative Approach of Counseling and Coaching
• 발행기관: 한국기독교상담심리학회
• 저자명: 유재성(Yoo Jae Sung)
• 간행물 정보: 『한국기독교상담학회지』제19권, 191~214쪽, 전체 24쪽
• 주제분류: 인문학 > 기독교신학
• 파일형태: PDF
• 발행일자: 2010.05.31

영문 초록

Chulsoo Park and Younghee Choi(names changed for confidentiality)came to writer’s office for help. They kept fighting and did not know how to resolve their relational conflicts. In fact, the wife had already made a decision to divorce, while her husband wanted to work on their relationship. The writer let them take MBTI and Korean Marital Satisfaction Inventory. These tests helped him understand what situation they had been and which relational areas might be necessary to focus on. Mr. Park found out as having the personality type of ISFP and Mrs. Choi ESTJ. He became emotional occasionally and tried to change his wife. According to her, he would be quiet and soft in general while becoming violent in a moment. In contrast, the wife looked very rigid and determined not to get involved with him anymore. The KMSI revealed their current relational status as having high global distress, lack of affective communication, aggressive behaviors, sexual dissatisfaction, and others. This writer began the first session by developing rapport and relational trust with the couple. He, as a coach, led them develop their goals to accomplish out of this session. The husband wanted their marriage be saved and were ready to do his parts. His wife, however, did not want to continue their relationship and resisted to the coaching guide. Having further talk, this coach could find out that she might have had some unresolved past issues. The next session was on the family history of distress. This counseling approach helped them understand their hidden relational hurts and unmet desires. Husband’s childhood family experiences led him want wife’s warm acceptance and support, while his wife aspiring her husband to be someone who could be reliable and available to her needs. Their unmet needs,however, drove them to take strong defensive attitudes and react the opposite ways of their real needs. Coaching techniques, such as timeline and anchoring, were applied to awake their oppressed emotions and senses, which created the mood change and clinical opportunity to work on their needs. To the question, “What went better in your relationship these days?”, at the beginning of the third and last session, the couple responded by saying,“Much better!”This writer let them clarify what became good and what were necessary to work more on. During the session, he wanted to put the couple under the guidance and help of the Spirit, which is the focal point of the solution-oriented LifeWay coaching∙therapy. The Holy Spirit gave him the idea of using the symbolic act of holding arms each other. Further talk on the Christian way of life motivated them to have faith on God. This case shows how the integrative approach of coaching and counseling could make a synergy effect on the recovery of the couple relationship. The coaching approach for their relational growth was supported by dealing with the couple’s past unmet desires. The counseling approach on their family of origin issues was assisted by coaching techniques. This integrated approach made the coaching-counseling sessions be more effective and practical in achieving their goals.

목차

들어가는 말

1. 연구대상 및 관계검사를 통한 이해

2. 라이프웨이 코칭적 상담 접근-첫 회기

3. 라이프웨이 상담적 코칭 접근-둘째 회기

4. 상담·코칭의 순환적 통합-3회기 및 사후 평가

나가는 말

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상담과 코칭 순환-통합적 접근 해결중심 라이프웨이 상담∙ 코칭 이혼 counseling and coaching circularintegrative approach solutionoriented LifeWay Therapy∙ coaching divorce